“ Pornography, modern man's harem ”
Please, husbands, PLEASE don't give in to the temptation to view pornography. It is devastating to a wife to discover her husband has viewed pornography. My husband admits to being an occasional user. (Occasional over 20 plus years) He thinks he has it under control and doesn't see the need for an accountability partner. What he does not understand is the damage he has caused to our marriage. Anyone looking in would see a happy couple and indeed we are happy. But there is a deep sorrow in my heart. A sorrow my husband cannot comprehend. A wound that once re-opened gets deeper and deeper. A realisation that what was rightfully mine, his devotion, his eyes, his desire, his 'forsaking of ALL others' has been scattered abroad and will never be fully recovered. Men are often deeply scarred by pornography whether they realise it or not, but be aware that the wife also carries a life sentence. |
1/3/09 9:49 PM
